By Paul Clooney
From How to Talk to Men
Why Men Won’t Commit and Lose Interest
Have you ever dated a man who suddenly lost interest or simply would not commit for some reason?
If so, I’m sure it left you scratching your head as to why.
Some men just find it hard to stay interested and can’t commit for various reasons.
I will share with you key insights and advice concerning men and commitment:
Why, Why, Why?
Let’s say a man takes you out on several dates and then suddenly loses interest and drops you.
For no apparent reason, he stops texting, calling and visiting you.
It appears he has suddenly become cold and distant.
Why do you think this happens?
You are left wondering what went wrong in the relationship and a million thoughts go through your mind.
Some women just conclude that the guy is a jerk, and they deserve better, but in truth, there could be a lot of other reasons for the relationship ending abruptly.
Lack of Warmth
Sometimes, a man feels he is playing an insignificant role in the relationship if a woman is not warm and loving.
Some women hold back their affection due to fear of being hurt or bitterness over failed relationships.
Gauge your behavior to see if you are truly showing warm and caring behavior toward a man.
If you are bossy, sarcastic or treat a man like he is a little boy, he is likely to rethink committing to a long-term relationship.
Men may not be as emotionally open or warm as a woman, but they do like a woman to be warm and loving.
Clingy Women
Men will tell you flat out that they don’t like clingy and needy women.
Men understand that women need some attention and many are up for giving attention, but constant attention will push men away.
They will lose interest in a hurry and not even consider committing long-term.
Men want to feel needed and like to provide for women, but they don’t want to be your sole source of fulfillment.
If you are seeking a man to fulfill all your needs and you base your identity on your man, you are setting yourself up for failure and likely pushing your man away.
Have some interests outside of your man. Men cannot meet all of your emotional, physical, spiritual and financial needs.
That’s not their job; it’s yours.
You can need certain things from a man, such as love, support, warmth, affection, help, etc..
.. but if you are continually needing him for every little thing, you will suck his energy quickly and he will not want to commit for long.
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Are You Too Predictable?
Moreover, men don’t like their women to be too predictable.
If the man in your life is able to predict your every action and words, there’s not much interesting, exciting or mystery in the relationship, and the man may become bored.
You may need to spice things up a bit and make the relationship interesting and unpredictable by teasing, joking, flirting and doing spontaneous, fun things.
Men are generally looking for adventure, humor and purposeful activities.
If it is just the same thing day after day, relationships can become boring and a man will lose interest.
Men Like Downtime
Men will admit that they like their downtime.
They work all day and simply want to come home and relax for a little bit.
They have a need to wind down after work and often do so by watching television, surfing the Internet or tinkering around the garage or yard.
If you are the kind of woman who charges a man as soon as he gets in the door or starts texting him right after work continually, your man may begin to lose interest and won’t want to commit to a long-term relationship.
Women are more communicative, which is GREAT, but a man needs a little time after work to just “chill”.
Let your man have a certain amount of time to take a deep breath, relax into something that he finds comfortable and rejuvenate.
You might think his watching television for 30 minutes is being lazy after work when, in reality, it is simply a way he can wind down from a long day and get geared up for evening activities.
Let him have his time, and then approach him happy and ready for a great evening of communication or activities.
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Attitude
Some men lose interest and won’t commit if the woman is too competitive or overbearing.
If you find yourself struggling with these tendencies, do your best to hold back displaying them.
Men like to feel like they are strong and successful.
If you are continually competing with your man when it comes to achievements or finances, it may push him away and he may lose interest over time.
Relationships do not have to be competitive. You are on the same team.
If you come across a man who does not seem to be able to commit or loses interest for no apparent reason, you can simply sit down and ask him what is going on.
Ask him why he does not seem interested or has stopped communicating with you.
If it is something on your part, you can at least know and begin to change your attitude or behavior, if necessary.
If it was something on his part, you can let it go, knowing that he still has some issues to work out before he can commit to a relationship.
It’s not always you or something you did.
Men can have issues that they are not aware of or are still working on before they feel they can commit to a long-term relationship..
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