By Amy North
From Text Chemistry
This eye-opening short video shows you a secret kind of text message that every man is dying to read:
5 Texts To Make A Man Feel Jealousy
When talking about relationships, one of the most common issues couples face is Jealousy.
Whether he’s anxious about her spending time with male friends or she feels insecure when comparing herself to the females in his life. Not being able to overcome jealousy is a pretty awful feeling.
That said when used correctly, Jealousy can be an extremely powerful tool for making a man want you.
You may think this sounds crazy but stick around because I’m about to share five text messages that will stir up the green-eyed monster and the best way possible.
Before I share these five types of text with you though, I want to start by giving you a quick but important pointer. So, grab a piece of paper and a pen and repeat this after me because it’ll become your new philosophy.
Don’t reply to his messages right away.
Got it? Good. Now here’s why.
Since part of the magic of making a man fall for you, it’s not being too clingy or too available.
If you’re answering his text message the second he sends them, then guess what you’re going to look pretty desperate. That’s why a good rule of thumb is to wait anywhere from 10 minutes to half hour before responding to him.
Of course, that changes, if you’re having a conversation or discussing a time-sensitive issue but unless he needs to hear from you right away, hold back and let some time pass between texts.
It’ll save you from looking like you’re sat by the phone waiting for his name to pop up and it’ll keep them curious about what you’re so preoccupied with.
Don’t brush this step aside because when used with these five types of text messages I’m about to share, it will do wonders for getting your man jealous.
Now let’s get rolling.
#1. Be Mysterious About What You Were Doing
There are a few things more powerful in the imagination and we’ll left to its own creation there’s no saying what stories that can unravel.
If you’re looking to make a man jealous then what better way to do so than by withholding some information when it comes to your plans, and leaving blank spaces for him to guess or wonder about or fill in himself?
Of course, this requires balance, I mean if you don’t tell the poor man anything then he’s not going to get jealous, he’ll get bored. So be fair here and decide when is and when is not a good time to text in cryptic.
A good example of a mysterious text is something like “I had so much fun last night but I’m paying for it today” or “Just getting back from an awesome lunch date. I’ll message you in a bit.”
This type of texts work because well they’re seemingly innocent messages, his mind will race with thoughts about who you were with and what happened.
When this happens, there’s a good chance he’ll ask you for more details. If this is the case, then do supply him with these but, again, if you can create some mystery in your response then you’ll be sure to push his jealousy buttons.
#2. Casually Mention Other Men
“Chris gave me a ride home from work today!” or “I’m going to check out the new martini lounge with Ryan!”
Those little mentions of other men will have a huge impact when it comes to awakening the green-eyed monster in your man.
To explain why, let’s reverse roles for a moment and talk about a scenario that most of you can probably relate to.
Let’s say, you’re talking to a man who you’re interested in and he mentions other females. Right away your brain starts processing that he’s referring to other woman and you can’t help but wonder who she is and what their relationship is all about. “Is it sexual? Did they ever date? Are they just friends? Is he in any way attracted to her?”
Well, guess what? That kind of jealousy works both ways. So, when you tell your man that you have been or plan to spend time with another male, those similar types of questions will arise, which in the grand scheme of things is perfect for making him want you.
Now, the key here is to be smooth and subtle, meaning you’re going to want to make it seem natural when you bring up other men and not like you’re forcing it.
If he gets the impression that you are trying to make him jealous, well in that case he’s either gonna get annoyed with you, he won’t buy into your story or be faced by what you say.
If you don’t want to go as far as making plans with other men and don’t think you can swing saying that you are, if you aren’t, then something as simple as mentioning how hilarious your male coworker is or how a palaver has got a handsome haircut can be just as effective.
Again though, balance is key here. If you come across as too interested in someone else then yeah, you’ll make your man jealous but it could also be your undoing, you don’t want to do that.
#3. Imply That You Have Plans
Hand in hand with my previous two points, if you’re looking to make a man jealous and get them wanting you, then a great strategy is to make it known that you have plans, but without telling him what those plans are.
Now, don’t panic this sounds tricky but it’s actually one of the easiest types of messages you can send.
For example, if you and him are texting back and forth then pull this jealousy maker off by saying “I got to get going. I need to go buy shoes for tomorrow night.”
Of course, you don’t have to use that exact example and I encourage you to make this your own but stress it up however you see it.
Just remember, the point is to imply that you have upcoming plans that need some attending to, but don’t mention what those plans are. If he does ask then wait at least half an hour before responding to him.
This will give them the chance to trigger that jealousy you’re looking to awaken here. When you do answer, maybe you can casually sneak in some men names too, but if he doesn’t take for details then just leave well enough alone.
Just be sure to always read the situation. If you feel like your text messages are going to upset them or piss them off then don’t send it. After all, you’re trying to win him over not push him away, be wise and use your judgment here.
#4. Send Them a Hot Photo via Text
This one is pretty self-explanatory, take a photo of yourself looking amazing and send it to him.
Now be smart though, you don’t want to send him anything too promiscuous and definitely no nude photos. What I’m talking about here or shot to yourself dolled up for a night out.
This means hair and makeup done, if that’s your thing. A fresh flattering outfit and toothy smile to boot.
This type of text message will have them boiling with jealousy for all the men who get to that night. The reason why you want to keep this photo classy is because the last thing you want to do is make him think that you’re going out intentionally to get clocked out by men.
Now, you may be thinking “But Amy, how would you know that?”
Well to be blunt, it doesn’t take Sherlock Holmes to figure that one out. I mean I’m all for expressing yourself and being an individual.
But if you tell him you’re going out with the girls and send a photo of yourself in an overly revealing top or micro miniskirt then he may think that you’re fishing for attention.
And trust me, that’s a huge turnoff for him.
#5. Always Be Having Fun or The Very Least Seeming To Be
Whether it’s a mundane Monday or sunny Saturday afternoon, by being the woman who is always having fun, you’ll be able to increase the likelihood of your man getting jealous. Again, in a good way.
So why does this work? Well, since men are naturally drawn to women who radiate positivity, if you’re doing this then a few things are going to happen.
First, you’re going to get attention from other men because, again, men are attracted to it.
Second, the man you are into is going to get jealous of how exciting your life is especially if you’re giving him a taste of it but still keeping your buffer zone and doing your own thing.
Third, when a man thinks that you need him to have a good time then he’s going to assume that it’s impossible for you to enjoy yourself unless he’s around.
By doing the opposite, it lets him know that you don’t need him which believe it or not will make him jealous of your independence.
Again, I know this sounds strange but it’s been proven time and time again. So, to have him steaming with jealousy, all you have to do is to tell him what a great time you had without him.
Of course, you don’t want to say it that directly but you get the point.
Well, that just about does it for this video, as always thanks so much for watching!
Before I go, I wanted to remind you not to forget to watch my video below. You’ll definitely learn lots of valuable information here…
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