By Amy North
From Text Chemistry
This eye-opening short video shows you a secret kind of text message that every man is dying to read:
How To Make Him Feel Intense Love and Desire For You (By Texting)
When you find yourself smitten it can be hard to get the man you’re into off your mind. From daydreaming about your future together to reminiscing about the last date you went on, he may be monopolizing all of your thoughts.
That said, how can you do the same to him?
How can you get your man to think about you and only you? Would you believe me if I said that setting the right tone in your text messages can do the trick and make him feel it intense love and desire for you?
But before I jump into the top five things you can and should do in your texts to make those lovey dovey feelings mutual – I want to quickly talk about the biggest mistake women make when on this quest.
There’s a fine line between showing interest in a man and coming across as clingy.
Since your goal is to make them feel intense feelings of desire for you then it’s important that you send the right text messages. More importantly, you’re going to want to avoid blowing up his phone.
This may force yourself on his mind but that’s not necessarily a good thing. In fact, you may even be better off with him not thinking about you at all! Than thinking about you, only because you’re driving him nuts.
So again, even if you think he’s the best thing since sliced bread, he still needs to feel like he can’t just HAVE you.
Instead, you’re going to want to create a bit of a challenge for him by letting him know that you‘re interested, but not too easy to catch.
I could go on and on here but rather than focusing too much on the chasing game, I want to talk about some other key pointers to keep in mind while texting him.
Here are 5 personal tips that you can use when texting to get the man you’re into, not only thinking about you but “head-over-heels with desire”.
#1. Be Bold
You’ve probably heard this a million times which is partially why it’s first on my list. But have you ever really thought about what being bold or being confident actually means?
If you haven’t, then listen up because this goes far beyond looking good or speaking your mind.
Instead, being bold is about genuinely loving and appreciating yourself for who you are and what you do.
To make this happen, you’re going to have to set aside some time and tune into your own head and heart. Maybe take a solo stroll, do some thinking or perhaps you can write it out on a list.
Either way, recognizing your strengths and what makes you such a great catch is important if you’re looking to find love. In doing this, you can expect to come across your flaws too. But, guess what? That’s actually a good thing.
When you can pinpoint your weaknesses in the areas of your life that need a little bit of extra focus and love, then you’ll have much more luck improving them.
Don’t freak out if you realize there are a dozen things you don’t like about yourself, now is the time to change. Once you have sorted through your thoughts and come to terms with where you’re at in life, it’s time to boost your confidence.
There are countless ways to do so but to get you started, make a point to focus on the good in your life. This kind of positivity will translate into confidence in your text messages and is a great first step.
Next, pick up some new projects or get around to tackling those dreams of yours that have been on the back burner.
Again, the options here are endless. So, find something that makes you happy and stick with it! Making these personal pleasures a part of your life, is going to have an astounding impact on your texting relationship. They also make for great texting topics.
#2. Challenge Him
As I briefly touched on already, if you’re looking to make a man feel intense love and desire for you then it’s crucial that you make him work for it.
After all, as the old saying goes “Nothing good comes easy”. I could go on about how men are born hunters and how since the beginning of time they’ve loved chasing their prize, but that’s all been said before. Instead, I’m going to get right to the point.
Picture this: Let’s say there are two women, Ashley and Christine. Both of them like a man named Joe and both of them have a different approach when it comes to showing it.
Where Ashley goes out of her way to send over-the-top text messages that booze sexual innuendos and make it known that Joe can have her any time of day, Christine does quite the opposite.
See, Christine plays the slow game. She’s a bit flirtatious with him but she knows how to hold back too. In other words, she creates tension between Joe and herself but she does so in a way that keeps him on his toes and wondering whether or not he could actually win her over.
Because of this intrigue, Joe is interested in Christine. I mean he knows he can have Ashley and he may even assume that she behaves this way with other men too, so really where’s the challenge in that?
As you’ve gathered from that example, it’s important that you keep the man you’re into you working for your affection and attention.
To do so, you’re going to want to send them subtle hints that you’re into him without going overboard in your text messages.
When done properly, the sort of encouragement will have him hooked.
#3. Tease Him
Whether you’re ready to jump between the sheets with this new man or not, letting him know that he does in fact stand a chance in this department will make him feel intense desire for you.
Now, that’s not to say you have to explicitly tell him so. Saying that you want to have sex with him isn’t the smoothest move you can make and I highly suggest you don’t do so. Subtly teasing him will do the trick.
From clever hints to playful wording, there are so many ways you can do this successfully. My recommendation here is to read the signals he’s sending you and respond accordingly.
For example, if he’s all about the flirty banter then play along with it. If he’s into texting about the physical aspects of your relationship, then choose the right words to tease and turn him on.
Just be careful here, as I mentioned in tip #2 you don’t want to come on too strongly. Let him take the lead and give back about 75% of what he’s giving you.
#4. Appreciate Him
Did you know that most men would say they feel unappreciated by their woman? It’s sad but true.
Instead of joining the fad, be the woman who makes her man feel like a million bucks! When you do, you can bet your buck that he’ll be filled with love for you.
If you’ve ever been in a situation where you felt unappreciated or undervalued then you know how much it sucks and how detrimental it can be to your ego.
With this in mind, it makes sense why a man wouldn’t want to be with someone who didn’t take the time to tell him that he’s cared for it and appreciated.
There’s no excuse not to either. It doesn’t take much to show him that you appreciate him, yet this kindness will move mountains for him.
To do so, make a point to recognize and thank him for the little things he does for you in your text messages. Even something as simple as sending “I appreciate you and love having you in my life” or “Thanks for being there for me,” will be soul shaking in his books.
#5. Be Your Own Person
Take a moment to think about some of the ladies you admire most, be it those you know personally or celebrity figures. Ask yourself what it is about them that you like so much.
I’m willing to bet it has something to do with them being driven, ambitious, strong women. One of the most attractive traits a woman can possess is independence.
This means that when you can be the kind of person who knows what they want and isn’t afraid to go after it, that will do wonders for winning over the heart of any man.
The truth is men want to be with women who they can complement, not complete. So, if you‘re sending the message that you need a man in your life by being too clingy or co-dependent, then you’re going to have a harder time getting one to commit.
Opposite that, if you have a fun filled life and are motivated, aspiring type then men will line up for a shot at love. Not to mention how much you look forward to hearing from you because you are the full package.
Make sense? I want to hear your thoughts.
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